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Asbury’s letters and related documents · Record 76

November 23, 1793 — to Ezekiel Cooper

Signed in the source: Francis Asbury.

ASB_VOL3.PDF, PDF page 158

Notes (6)
  1. According to the Journal, Asbury was at J. Smith’s. ↩
  2. Presiding elder at Boston. ↩
  3. Reference is to the O’Kelly Republican Methodist Church, which had begun in Surry County, Virginia, not far from Petersburg. Actually the O’Kellyites, as they were called, made an effort to return to the fold. They felt Asbury gave them no consideration. (See MacClenny, The Life of Rev. James O’Kelly, 110-12.) ↩
  4. Cokesbury College. ↩
  5. Book Agent in Philadelphia. ↩
  6. On several occasions Asbury said that his chief affliction was the difficulties caused by his preachers marrying. He said once that the devil and the women were getting his preachers. Following is a report of the marriage of the Rev. William Spencer: “I have been exercised in my mind for several years about altering my condition in life but was unwilling to quit the traveling connection as long as I found myself able to travel and labour for God and souls. Being fully convinced that the life of a traveling preacher is the best life for holy and constant walking with God and for usefulness to mankind of any other life whatever. I first set out in the vineyard of the Lord with no other motive but to glorify God and to gain souls to my blessed Master, and I was anxious to be as extensively useful as possible feeling, however, that I was greatly exhausted and entirely unable to go through the labours I had gone through, I began to think seriously and with prayer to God for his blessing and direction about seeking a companion that might be a helpmeet for me. I viewed marriage to be an important matter, indeed, and was truly sensible of the necessity of acting with prudence and caution in so weighty an affair. I accordingly laid the matter before God in constant fervent prayer and likewise counselled with a number of my most judicious, pious, and aged brethren. I shall never forget an expression of an aged pious minister while talking with him on this important subject. ‘Depend upon it, my dear Brother (said he) a married life is the happiest or miserablest life upon earth: therefore you do well in laying your case before God, and in counselling with your friends, &c.’ “My continual prayer to God was, that if it was his will I should marry, to chuse one for me that he knew would be a blessing to me in time and Eternity: and I have no doubt but God heard and answered my prayers. “We were married the first day of November, 1797, in Lunenburg County, Virginia. The name of my wife was Mary Newbill, daughter of Mr. Nathe. Newbill of said County. The ceremony was performed by that man of God (now in Heaven) the Reverend John Easter. We had a small company of serious friends and brethren present, and after we were married, Brother Easter preached an excellent sermon, in which he treated largely upon the duties of husbands and wives, and which, I think, will be remembered by my wife and myself with profit till death parts us. “I now took my leave of an itinerant life, in which I had spent between 8 and 9 years, and had the unspeakable happiness to see many souls brought home to God. [For years he taught after this in Charlotte, Cumberland, and other counties.]” The Experience, &c., of the Reverend William Spencer, Vol. I. Property of Dr. Robert B. Pierce, Broadway Methodist Church, Indianapolis, Indiana ↩

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